Dear Charles,
Not being either a believer or nonbeliever, I went to see you today, in response to some sudden changes in my life. Your accuracy and friendliness both comforted and amazed me. You knew so much about both the living & nonliving, the animal & human folk in my life, and the most personal aspects of them, that I returned with more questions the same day! I noted, how some of my questions remained unanswered, and I got a feeling the information was none of my business. You handled my grief over a broken relationship sensitively. Even my own health issues, about which you could have known nothing, you were able to speak to cogently. Amazing. Truly.
Thank you, for contacting my friend who was murdered last summer. It was such a shock to our "gaggle" of close friends. We visited him in ICU before he died, and I had so much to say; you assured me that he knew what I'd told him. When you got tears, saying they were his, because of his joy at the contact, and that he looked forward to our eventual reunion, I experienced a warm, healing relief. The details you were able to give me, about which you said he laughed, amused and encouraged me - you even knew his profession and avocations, without my input! You still do not know the details of two of the inside jokes - in fact, you could not have know they were inside jokes - but you laughed sincerely, and said he was doing the laughing. I'm glad he is still amused.
Thank you, also, for the rest of the hour you spent talking to me, and being patient with my emotionality. At one point, I felt a little self-centered and rude, but you were patient, given my grief. You've experienced so many wonderful things through this gift. I read your testimonials, and it sounds like your wife is a gem, too. Not all of the gift is sweetness and light, it seems; it is a serious responsibility. From my personal questions, to your examples and your messages from the whales that swam up the Sacramento River, you have taken on the mantle of this responsibility bravely. In my gratitude, I also admire your - and your wife's! - strength.
Most sincerely,
Maggie Scott
Benicia ~ CA